As part of our effort to grow the character trait of self-control, we took time today to talk about how harsh or unkind words and actions affect others. Our morning circle started with a whole heart, free from tears and wrinkles and folds. Without warning, though, unkind words were spoken. Consequently, a chunk of the heart was torn and tossed to the floor. The initial insult was followed by a flood of fierce phrases. Before long, the heart was a pathetic pile of pieces that appeared broken beyond repair.
There is hope, however. Hurting hearts can be healed. While a slow process, kindness, care, compassion, and encouragement can mend. Words spoken sincerely and selflessly can stitch together. The wounds may remain indefinitely and scars still may be seen.
With significant effort, our torn heart was reassembled and has been posted to serve as a reminder of how our words and actions affect others. May we strive to speak and act in ways that heal rather than hurt.